May 12, 2012

  • Fed up & frustrated as hell lol

    Better out than in - verbal vomit in progress - just feel like letting it out - people can be so down-right cruel, ignorant, transparent, with illusions of grandeur..
    makes me wanna just go on a bitch-slap rampage lol

    I get so fed up with bullshit.. seems to be everywhere lately *sigh*

    Some of my biggest pet peeves are:
    1. Busy-bodies
    (those who have dull boring lives, dislike themselves, and make shit up to gain attention or some sort of wrongfully perceived 'status')
    2. Rumor-vines - a.k.a. Grapevines -  that run rampant through places
    3. Disrespecting those who may be different than you, whether its social, intellectual or spiritual differences (or friendship differences)
    4. Favoritism
    5. Backstabbing (I'm your best friend but only when I'm talking to you. When I'm talking to someone else, you're shit on my shoe)
    6. Different rules depending on who you do or don't like, or on your mood - whether its good or not,
    and what you may have "heard" through 'oh so trusting' grapevine of rumors and bullshit.

    Yup, that kinda sums it up for now.

    People in positions of power such as supervisors, leaders, etc. Should NEVER say they will punch an employee - while talking to another employee. Should NEVER get involved in childish gossip. NEVER talk 'trash' about an employee to that employees fellow peers. NEVER talk bullshit, or bullying tactics- about an employee (to an employee) within ear-shot of *that* employee.

    That is EXACTLY the kind of thing that is PROVEN to lead people over the edge to suicide, depression, aggression, work-place violence, and a chaotic, 'hostile' (even if it is just words) workplace.

    Isn't that EXACTLY the same thing we are trying to prevent in our Schools?

    Grow the fuck up people!!!

    THINK

    Use your brain for something other than a hat rack or hair spray holder.

    /end/ thoughts for tonight...

    Oh, almost forgot - anyone have twitter? You can find me at http://twitter.com/rhonda.hhonda

Comments (4)

  • Haha, how do you really feel? I agree with all of your points!

  • Hi,

    Huge Ass Hugs . . .

  • Dear Aradia,

    Thank you so much for visiting my blog and leaving me a comment on my last photopost.

    The people to whom one directs sound advice are the least likely to be listening.

    You can quote me.

    Following my signature is an "answer poem" (of sorts) to your blog entry. I wrote it when I was 25.(Wasn't really the one I was looking for, but it'll do.) As I read your "pet peeves",I remembered back in high school (eons ago) that I put "stupidity" and "posturing" as some of my "pet peeves" when interviewed for the "Senior Celebrity" column in our HS newspaper. They're still two of my top pet peeves 40 years later.

    Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool

    "Wavelengths"
    Poetry by Michael F. Nyiri
    December 21, 1977

    Bribed by the multifaceted quasi-barbed
    yet indelibly carefree, intellectualized
    vocabularies asking nothing
    but inane
    questions
    and offering nothing
    Save sactimonious fart-cracks
    At a world gone mad.

    What, one wonders, is he talking about
    as we puff our joints
    carefully listening
    analyzing nothing
    "Ask me if I care."
    "Do you?"
    "No."

    The people conversationalize
    They swim through the bullshit
    Forsaking true feelings
    And is it true that everyone's
    clock mechanism winds
    at a different rate of speed
    And I never can find
    synchronization with anyone
    anymore?

    Well, we don't like the bullshit
    But is it that everyone else
    doesn't really want to listen
    doesn't really want to know
    doesn't really care
    "Ask me if I care?"
    "Why not?"
    "Forget it."

    What are words
    But a hindrance
    To conversation

    And what is idle conversation
    But a hindrance
    To our wavelengths.

    The Deltas will never feel
     at home with the Gammas
    The Gammas will never feel
     at home with the Betas
    The Betas will never feel
     at home with the Alphas

    and the Alphas will feel lonely
    as they manufacture conversations
    and no one cares to listen
    and no one cares at all
    and no one learns anything at all
    from his fellow human beings.
    Tune in on my wavelength
    And I'll try to tune in yours.

  • @baldmike2004 -  sorry its been so long.. kinda gave up on xanga for a while :) I like that! I smiled as I read it, agreeing and shaking my head "yup" yup" that's the way it goes :)  Thank you for sharing!

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